Liars & Manipulators Aren’t The Issue!- WATCH OUT For This Type of Man To Find Love | Matthew Hussey [Video]

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If 1 in 3 men cheat, there are a HOLEEEEEE lot of women out there dealing with heartbreak losing their confidence.

On today’s episode of Women of Impact, I’m joined again by my super close homie Matthew Hussey. You may know him as a world-leading dating and confidence coach who shares authentic, insightful, and practical advice to help women not only find love, but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness!

This time, we’re talking about eeeeevery woman’s WORST nightmare – the crushing event of being cheated on.

We dig into…
– The signs in your relationship that they may betray you, and why you might be ignoring them
– How to tell the difference between a bad choice vs. a character flaw
– Dealing with the SHAME and BLAME of being betrayed
– Why avoiders are worse than liars, and how YOU might be HELPING them
– How to escape the “victim” mentality and protect your self-esteem and self-worth if they ARE unfaithful
– The REAL reason you’re NOT asking the TOUGH questions
– 5 reasons WHY you say YES to people that are bad for you
– How the EMPOWERING idea of being “happy enough” can help you take your MAGIC back
– Why toxic guys are WORSE than a drug addiction
– The HARSH reasons why you’re NOT holding him to your standards

LISTEN CLOSE and get ready to have your mind blown! Because I’m telling you homie, this interview had EVEN ME seeing cheating in a completely different way, and that says A LOTTTT coming from me!!

Chapter Markers:

😞 [00:00] Beware of Shame, Avoiders & Liars
🫡 [17:42] Self-Respect After Cheating
❤️ [30:31] Self-forgiveness for Letting Go
✅ [37:37] 7 Reasons Why We Say Yes
👀 [47:26] Look In a New Direction
🪄 [1:14:32] FU Confidence & Taking Back Your Magic
🔧 [1:30:06] Tools for Finding Happiness
👉 [1:37:10] Bonus Episode: Lewis Howes

****Bonus Episode: Uncomfortable Truths about Relationships with Lewis Howes****

Keep watching for a BONUS conversation with the incredible Lewis Howes where we discuss WHY people still cheat and lie in a relationship, and how the suffering and fear going on in people’s lives from their past can influence their future.

🔥 MATTHEW HUSSEY’S FIRE QUOTES:
“If every mistake we made was a life sentence, we would all be in trouble.”

“One of the lenses through which I think of cheating is through a lapse of personal standards that someone has. People who don’t cheat in relationships, it’s not just because they’re never attracted to somebody. People who don’t cheat in relationships because they have a standard for themselves and they have a standard for how they treat not just you, but people that they wouldn’t make that kind of a promise to someone and then break that promise.”

“Actually, what a lot of people feel when they cheat is that they lost their power. They felt that they’ve let them, not just you, down, they’ve let themselves down. And that there’s a deep, deep sense of shame and guilt that comes with that.”

“Not everyone who experiences infidelity finds themselves in a doomed relationship, or even in a kind of trust that can never be repaired, or a beautiful story that’s now been ruined for good.”

“We have to, for our own forgiveness and to be able to move on from certain things, we have to, at a certain point, be able to say, that’s not who I am, it’s something I did, because otherwise, self forgiveness isn’t possible. If every mistake was a life sentence, we’d all be in trouble.”

“If you find that someone has deep regret and shame and guilt over this thing, then what you have is a person who deviated from their moral compass in the moment that they did that.”

“It feels like shoots and ladders, where you get all this progress and you climb a ladder and you feel like you’re in a relationship and then someone breaks up with you or leaves you or betrays you or cheats, and you just go all the way back down to the beginning again, or what feels like even further back.”

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